Adoption - more than trendy

Adoption - more than trendy

Deneen Holder

Adoption has become almost trendy in Hollywood today. As a result of this trend, the plight of orphans in our world has been highlighted and adoption has been introduced as a means of making a difference. Adoption of a child from a developing country has an additional element of compassion and opportunity for the child. Globally there are between 30 and 100 million orphans in the world, many as a result of war or disease. Should the Church be responding to this crisis? We often think of adoption as a blessing only for couples that have suffered the heartache of infertility. Interestingly, many couples that have journeyed down the path to adoption after facing infertility feel that it was by divine design that their adopted child/children came to be in their families. Is adoption something that God cares about deeply and calls Christians to take an active role in? Furthermore, is adoption something to consider, even for families who already have children?

A sense of belonging is not far from any of us. ". . .you have received a spirit of adoption. When we cry, "Abba, Father!" it is that very Spirit bearing witness with our spirit that we are children of God." Romans 8:15-16 James1:27 says "Pure and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this: to care for orphans and widows in their trouble..." It is the church's responsibility to care for orphans. Singer/songwriter, Steven Curtis Chapman, a recognized advocate for adoption, and a father of six children (three of whom are adopted), states "it is not just a duty God calls us to, but also an invitation to experience a deeper understanding of who He is. It really is this divine, incredible invitation. God's saying, if you want to find me, this is where I said I'd be. You will find me in the suffering. You will find me in the least of these. You will find me in caring for the orphans, in caring for the widows.' It's an amazing invitation."

Adoption is indeed one of the most profound ways the church can care for orphans, something very near to God's heart. As Curtis Chapman says, "adoption is the visible gospel." As a theme adoption is woven throughout the bible., indeed Jesus himself was adopted and raised by Joseph. There are other notable examples such as Esther and Moses whose mother, Jochebed, lovingly placed him in a basket among the bull rushes. She made an incredible personal sacrifice in order to give him a future that she was unable to provide for him because of her circumstances. Another courageous woman, the Pharaoh's daughter, drew him out of the water and became his mother. Both of them loved him, and God used each of them to fulfill His plan.

These are amazing stories about orphaned children who were not only precious in the Father's sight, but who were also chosen by God to be instrumental in His plan of salvation for His people. Placing these children in a family was an essential part of God's plan to position them to fulfill their destiny.

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Psalm 68:4-6 describes God as "Father to the fatherless, and it is He who sets the lonely in families." Who is lonelier than a child without a parent to care for them and love them, to rejoice with them in their successes and encourage them through their failures, to tuck them into bed at night and hold them when they are scared? God knows where every fatherless child is, and He loves each one. He has a plan for their lives, and He wants to place them in a family. He desires to give them a home where they can experience His love for them. He wants to position them to fulfill their God-given destinies.

Although adoption is not the only we can express care toward orphans, it surely is a the most profound expression of care. There is opportunity for Christian families to provide love and a home for a child who may not hear of God's love otherwise, and to make known God's plan for salvation and redemption. Some children are hidden in orphanages around the world; others are hidden in foster care here in Canada that are living without a feeling of being loved. There are also courageous mothers, like Moses mother Jochebed, who are making the heart-wrenching choice to place their newborn babies out for adoption. All of these children need a family of their own, and a place to call home.

For those who feel that they have room in their hearts and home for an orphaned child, why not simply ask God if adoption is right for you and your family. For those who would like to be a part of God's invitation to care for orphans through adoption but are not in a position to adopt, there are many ways to support others who are able to. Indeed Christian agencies such as World Vision capture the spirit of adoption in sponsoring a child.

International adoption, in particular, can be very costly, so giving financially can make all the difference for some families. Other ways of supporting adoptive families are through baby showers, baby-sitting, walking with them through the difficult times, sharing in their joy in the triumphant times, and most of all, helping to point these children to Jesus and His unfailing love for them.

The road of adoption and parenthood can be a difficult one, with unexpected challenges and disappointments, but it is also one of unspeakable joy. God's heart is toward the orphan. For those families that He is inviting to take part in this amazing miracle, His present and future grace is sufficient for each and every step of the journey.

Helpful resources on the subject of adoption:
http://www.hopeadopt.org
http://www.sunriseadoption.com
http://www.fotf.ca/tfn/life/articles/cpcs.html

August 2/2007

Comments

I believe adoption is one of the most beautiful miracles in the world. What better way to show love than to make a child your own and love and care for one who may have otherwise never had a chance. Nothing to me is more beautiful than a child.

Vanessa Brown
#1 Vanessa Brown - 08/04/2007 - 08:37

Right. Adoption's always been a big cash cow for the church. Let's REALLY get some cash rollin' now - and screw up a bunch more lives while we're at it. YAY Jesus.
#2 Michelle - 08/05/2007 - 14:35

Amen Michelle! I hope Mr. Chapman scores better real estate in heaven for his efforts to end "suffering". I like the idea of family sponsoring better than adoption- glad you brought it up as an alternative.
#3 Sunny - 08/05/2007 - 15:21

What's a miracle is that 30 years after being taken from MY family we reunited despite tortuous adoption laws and practices!

Tankd GOD I found my family!
#4 Miracle adoptee - 08/05/2007 - 15:23

I think it is very sad when a child is forced to assume an identity and a pretense to please other people. What a burden. Miracle is certainly not a word I would use.
#5 Good Samaritan - 08/05/2007 - 16:11

Its interesting that you point out how it is our responsibility to take care of orphans and widows. Namely orphans. Other funny thing is that those orphans return home to their families. Even Jesus returned to his father.
#6 Angryadoptee - 08/05/2007 - 16:22

Thank you God for letting the church arrange for me to be stolen from my mother as an innocent baby.
#7 peter dana - 08/05/2007 - 18:04

I was adopted into a different religious faith. Are you really interested in helping unwanted children so much that you would be willing to have them be adopted into other than Christian families? My guess is: no.
#8 Nora - 08/05/2007 - 20:13

And Moses gave up an entire empire to go back to parents and roots.
#9 Miracle adoptee - 08/06/2007 - 06:27

Let's get some facts straight. Jesus was pretty much the bastard son of an unwed teenage mother.

Was he taken from her and given up for adoption? No.

So why are we doing this to so many unmarried teenage mothers today? Hypocrisy.

It costs, what, 20,000, 30,000 dollars or more to adopt ONE CHILD from an overseas orphanage.

Imagine what that 20-30,000+ would do if instead we just GAVE THAT MONEY TO THE ORPHANAGE? Help ALLLLL the kids instead of helping yourselves to just one so that you can be called "mommy" and feel all warm and fuzzy.

If you REALLY wanted to just help the little orphans, that would seem MUCH more logical to me.

But then I am just a little adoptee, so what do I know?
#10 Lillie - 08/07/2007 - 10:38

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