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By Meghan Maddigan
DESPITE what appears to be a growing prevalence of divorce in our society, there
is no question that the fundamental issues of divorce have been plaguing
societies for centuries. At their core are questions of fault.
Is one person to blame when a marriage breaks down? If so, does the law punish
the wrongdoer in a marriage? Should it?
This issue has been brought to the forefront of legal discussion yet again, as a
result of New York State reforming its divorce laws.
Until recently, a person who wanted to divorce a spouse in New York had to prove
they had grounds for divorce such as adultery, and one party had be assigned ‘fault’ for the marriage breakdown.
On August 15, 2010, New York officially became the last state to allow ‘no fault’ divorces, joining not only the remaining states but also Canada.
This change sparked controversy within many religious communities.
Richard E. Barnes, executive director of the New York State Catholic Conference,
said his group supported the existing law: “New York State has one of the lowest divorce rates in the country. While we see
that as a cause for state pride, sadly some may see it as a problem to be
corrected.”
The idea of not allowing a party to obtain a divorce without proof of adultery
is a concept that hearkens back to the church.
In Matthew 19:8-9 Jesus advised: “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it
was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his
wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits
adultery.”
This biblical requirement for divorce has had ripple effects throughout history
and there are many examples of the clash of church and state on this very
topic.
In fact, the Anglican Church was founded in large part as King Henry VIII’s reaction to the Catholic Church refusing to grant him a divorce to Catherine
of Aragon.
Canada is no exception. If you lived in Canada before 1968, adultery was the
only ground acceptable to get divorced and you needed to have your marriage
dissolved by an Act of Parliament.
In 1968, the Divorce Act was signed into effect; it permitted divorce for
specific reasons, including adultery, imprisonment of your spouse, physical and
mental cruelty and separation for at least three years.
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Finally, in 1986, the Divorce Act was further amended to permit divorce after
separation of one year, with no requirement to prove ‘fault’ by either spouse. This version of the Divorce Act remains in force today.
Thus, if the parties have been separated for more than a year, the court, with
few exceptions, has little time to hear stories about adultery or misbehaviour.
These factors, while relevant to the parties’ personal relationship, are considered mostly irrelevant to the legal
considerations.
Those who support the former system argue that by allowing a no-fault system we
are making it easier for people to divorce one another and therefore
encouraging society not to take the institution of marriage seriously.
Some would also look to uphold the biblical standard, while others claim that
impoverished women will have less leverage in obtaining fair settlements.
A no-fault divorce system allows a person to unilaterally divorce an innocent
spouse who does not wish their marriage to end.
Proponents of the no-fault divorce system point to the fact that one must
actually prove adultery or cruelty in court in order to satisfy the court that
it did in fact happen.
This requires the innocent spouse to spend considerable money and time leading
very nasty evidence before the court, sometimes taking a bad situation and
making it much worse. Worse yet are the people who are determined to get a
divorce and who will manufacture reasons against their spouse in order to meet
certain criteria.
Then there is the situation of the spouse who wants a divorce, but does not have
the financial resources to prove adultery or cruelty in a court of law; for
these people, a simple, no-fault divorce system is the better answer.
Proponents will also point to the fact that no-fault divorce systems can process
files more quickly and less expensively.
As New York joins the remaining states and Canada in embracing the no-fault
divorce system, there will undoubtedly be people who celebrate, while others
question if something has been lost.
In a system where nothing is perfect, is instituting no-fault divorces a means
to shield individuals from additional pain or a means to shield wrongdoers from
ever answering for their actions?
Meghan Maddigan is a lawyer practicing with the firm of Kuhn & Company.
October 2010
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